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cuLts and cuLt-Like behaviouR

 My parents are at a new church.  And with my basic disregard for all things organized religion, I was a little distressed to hear this.  At their last church, they were becoming disengaged enough that I actually started to hope that they'd see how awful the system is and distance themselves from it.  The lack of masks and the disregard for public health guidelines seemed to impress on my folks that all was not well with the institution.

Sadly, they found a new church instead.  A worse church, in my opinion - heavily focused on discipleship (christian for control), and a website full of misogynist, heteronormative, and passive ideations.  The type of church I distain - code words like discipleship, accountability, etc..  dog whistling for control and manipulation.  Lots of talk about giving back to the community, but when you investigate it's mostly things like plays and bible schools and lots of colonial style missions where you fly somewhere, tell them to repent, and come home. 

I'm sad, because it enforces a belief system that I grew up with and dislike strongly.  Sad, because it puts my parents and I further and further apart in our belief systems.


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